To Avoid Disappointment I Maintain Realistic Expectations
November 9, 2009 by Misha Maggie Mora
Nobody rises to low expectations – Calvin Lloyd
I want to experience real depth with people, so I let go of the fairy tale notions of my youth. I maintain realistic expectations so there is no such thing as disappointment in my life.
I am human and fallible. While I strive daily to be my best self, I recognize that growing and maturing is a process. I know that my actions, attitudes, and performance will sometimes leave room for improvement. That’s okay! As long as I am continually moving forward, I am satisfied.
I extend the same courtesy to others. Because I want them to understand my human tendencies and weaknesses, I allow others to be human as well.
My spouse, co-workers, children and friends all have their own unique personalities and sets of challenges. By granting them permission to be fallible, I set myself up for more genuine relationships that will sustain us all during hard times.
And hard times do come! I keep in mind the fact that Hollywood is a mirage and that real life is tough for the vast majority of the world.
I have let go of the idea that somehow I should be insulated from the troubles of humanity and be allowed to live a fairy tale life in my castle in the clouds.
Because I value real life with authentic and rewarding relationships, I free myself of the need for perfection and live in the moment, finding joy and opportunity in each day.
Self Reflection
1. Do I expect perfection of myself?
2. Do I allow others to be human and fallible?
3. Am I longing after a fairy tale, or am I making the most of my reality?
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